What is this girls problem?

I have been going steady with a lovely young woman for about 6 months. She and I really do have a connection and i feel like maybe she is the one for me. There is a slight problem however. She does not like it when i go to gay bathouses and take advantage of the Schlong buffet. I keep telling her that she can come with me and pretend to be a shemale but she refuses. I think this is a real problem in our relationship. She also refuses to wash my Bentley with lard and hamburger patties while i touch myself.